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The Start of Something New

Hiya Guys,

Contrary to the title and my love of Disney, this blog post isn't all about High School Musical (but one day maybe). Today I had my last exam and that officially signals the end of my college life and, even though I am excited for a new start, I thought I'd reminisce on my time and also give some of you lovely people advice if you are starting college.

I never really expected to enjoy college as much as I did because High School was life changing and really brought me out of my shell. However, college really defined who I was as a person and who I want to be in the future. It also helped me grow as a person by giving me my first taste of independence and I met people I hope will stay in my life forever.

I'm not saying that college is the route for everyone because there are so many different options like finding a job or doing an apprenticeship. But, for me, college was something I'd always wanted and knew that it would give me skills to combat the world one day... that's just from the uber hard exams (they say that your A Levels are the hardest thing you'll ever take).

Even though my time at college was amazing, it was tough and set home some realities and I know that many other people suffered with the transition:


  • If you don't know anybody, do not worry! I started off having so many people from my high school but I barely talk to any of them and I have made new amazing friends.
  • Be open to new experiences! This could be in relation to the subjects, extra curricular or when picking friends. It's a new start for a reason and don't be scared to experience something foreign.
  • Don't be afraid to be yourself! We all know that at high school your identity is limited because of your uniform. College lets you be yourself and to blossom as a person. Don't care about the haters because as one smart Taylor Swift sang, 'haters gonna hate, hate, hate'
  • Work hard and play hard. Even though you get independence to do what you want, work hard because these grades are going to be with you for the rest of your lives. However don't push yourself so much that it affects your well being.
  • Finally, if you don't feel right either physically or mentally, tell someone! I know it's a cliche but it might help a little bit.
So, that's it for one chapter in my life. I don't know what the next year will bring but hopefully this blog can expand and I can write on a more regular basis!


That's all for now my dears,
See you soon

xx

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